Talk to wife before your marriage is truly hopeless

Dear Carolyn: I am in my 30s, married five years, and have beenwith my wife for almost 10. We have no kids. I am thinking ofdivorce. My wife and I used to get along; she was so great - but inthe last three years she has completely changed. Lately it seemsthat she only cares about her career and money. We are not poor byany means. In addition, her temper has worsened and I get beratedfor any slip-up I make. For instance, I was two minutes late leavingfor work this morning, and I got yelled at for 10 minutes in the car(she blamed me for making her late). She even yells at me when shemakes mistakes. The yelling and put-downs have happened so often inthe last three years (daily) …